welcome to the, nearly, problem free philosophy

there are no rules... just priorities.

why should rules dictate the way you behave, the way you do things, the way you see and perceive things, the way you react to things?

why should rules contradict the very way you feel, especially of those that deny the very core of the liberty and freedom you were given?

why should rules dictate the standards of ANYTHING?

the fact that these questions exist is only because they were created out of how one should act through the assumptions of another person/group/system/religion etc. that these guidelines would lead to a life that would certainly be balanced. and it's true. read between the lines out of EVERYTHING from the groups/people and you will see the nature of their words and just how absolute their words are.

words cannot express just how absolute words are... because they are NOT. rules cannot express just how absolute rules are... because they are NOT (common sense is absolute). the only biggest thing that is absolute is YOU! big example would be relationships. the fact that >90% of the population (both male and female) believe the man should pay for dinner merely dictates a few principles:

• unless reasons are stated otherwise, you are BUYING her affection because you cannot gain them through any other means
• unless reasons are stated otherwise, it is highly misinterpreted as reaction-seeking behaviour
• unless reasons are stated otherwise, you've fallen victim to societies (or companies marketting schemes) standards of how one should live life without following you're way

it's a total big fucking grey area i am not diving into, but these are very general rules and general principles i speak of which are quite factual. so why follow this rule in the first place if its full of shit? why would it make you less manlier if you didnt? these rules dictate how to act but NOT how to feel. one way to go about it is thinking androgenously, knowing both sides of the coin can help you with what you want (but you shouldve known what you've wanted in the first place ;P). if you want someone the only question of you're manlihood would be 'are you doing what you want and enough of it to make her want you?'

knowing how to act and knowing how to feel are 2 separate entities in the same body, your body. you already know how to act, now just follow your heart and feel. if you want something then you're going to have it, because that's the priority you created... full stop. in the presence of priorities rules would be the base to which you can prove upon.

fussing over rules can only lead to one thing. problems. swimming around with the full meaning of words can lead to one thing. problems. neuroticism leads to one thing. stupidity.

know what you want and prioritise. i'm not right, but you're priority is.

it's been awhile since i've blogged, but since then ive already became what i didnt think possible :D i still harbor the very quirks that create my existence eg. self love, awesomeness etc.